Wednesday, March 6, 2024

Chapter 1: 1865-1870, When they didn’t come home

Jane Rutledge had known since 1862 that her husband and brother-in-law would not be coming home. She had, nevertheless, continued to hope that her eldest son would return when it was over. “It’s beginnin to look like the boys will be coming home soon,” she had told one of her neighbors just last week. And then, there was that knock at the door.

2 “Mam, you don’t know all of us, but we served with your boy in the 12th Alabama Cavalry,” Nathan Basham began. “This is Andrew Odem, George Widener and Hezekiah Frost,” he introduced. “Mam, we just wanted you to know how much we thought of John, and we sure are sorry that he died,” Nathan concluded.

3 “When did he die?” Jane demanded. “It was at the end of March near Salisbury, North Carolina,” Andrew volunteered. “We hadn’t had much good to eat in several weeks, and he was awful weak and sick,” Hezekiah explained.

4 “Were you boys with him when he passed?” she asked. “I was,” Nathan told her. “I was with him when he took his last breath.” “I want to thank y’all for stopping by to tell me,” Jane managed before she closed the door.

5 She sank down into the closest chair, laid her head over onto the table and began sobbing. A few minutes later, Lucinda walked into the room.

6 “Mama, what’s wrong?” she asked. “John is dead,” Jane said flatly. “He’s not gonna be comin home,” she added with a finality that made her daughter shiver.

7 Lucinda crossed the floor between them and embraced her mother. “I love you, Mama,” Lucinda whispered. Jane finally stopped sobbing and looked up at her daughter. “I guess we’d better get some supper cooked,” she said as she patted Lucinda on the arm.

8 That night, they ate some pinto beans and cornbread for supper in complete silence. William and Franklin had been looking forward to their big brother’s guidance and help with the work, but even the little ones had some sense of just how desperate their situation was.

9 After all, they had already lived over two years without a man in the house. They all knew that there was little food and no money, and many of the family and friends whom they might have resorted to for help in more normal times were in similar circumstances.

10 Hence, although the war had disrupted life all over the country, it is hard to exaggerate the ruinous current state of the Southern economy and culture. Confederate currency was worthless. Many of the South’s major cities had been destroyed. Race relations were unsettled.

11 And, on the farms and plantations, many of the fields remained empty and untended. To survive, the entire family worked long hours in the fields and concentrated on enlarging their flocks and herds through breeding within their own stocks and in cooperation with those of their neighbors.

12 Jane made dresses for the girls and pants and shirts for the boys. She became an expert in patching and mending clothes. To make extra money, she also sewed for her neighbors.

13 Then, early in 1867, there was one small glimmer that life might eventually return to its normal rhythms. A local neighbor boy named Jack McAnally began calling on Lucinda and going through the motions of a traditional Southern courtship. They were both nineteen years old, and they had both lost family members in the war.

14 “May I call on your daughter?” Jack asked Jane with his hands folded behind his back. “I guess, that’d be all right,” Jane replied. “Y’all can sit on the porch and talk,” she added to make sure he understood the parameters of the process.

15 They were married in a simple ceremony that December. Jack even helped William and Franklin with the crop the following year. In another year, the couple welcomed a little girl into their new household. They named her Tea.

16 “I know you’re worried about everything, Mama,” William told his mother. “But we’re gonna be all right,” he reassured her.

17 “You’ll be starting a family of your own soon,” she smiled. “Not too soon,” he told her. “And, when I do, I’m not gonna forget about you, Franklin, Martha, Elijah, Louisa and Melva!” he declared. “Thank you, son,” she smiled; but she couldn’t hide the weariness and worry that had enveloped her from his keen eyes.

18 Early in August of 1870, a stranger approached the house. He was carrying what looked like two or three large ledger books. “That must be the census marshal,” William told his mother. “I heard that they was comin,” Jane replied.

19 “Hello, my name is David Day, and I have been designated by the Secretary of the Interior to take your information for the federal census,” he began when he reached the porch. “What information?” Jane demanded.

20 “Well, let’s begin with your name,” he answered. “I’m Jane Rutledge, and this is my boy William,” she told him. After obtaining the names of the other children, he asked about their ages and place of birth. “What is your profession, occupation or trade?” he asked next.

21 Jane studied his face as if she was trying to figure out what he was asking. “I mean what kind of work do you do?” he clarified. “I clean, cook, sew and take care of these children,” she told him. “Keeping house,” he mumbled to himself as he scribbled something on the paper before him.

22 “Can you read or write, Mrs. Rutledge?” “I never had the time for such as that.” The census taker sighed and checked the box indicating that she was an idiot.

23 “These folks are just about the most ignorant people I’ve ever come across in my entire life!” he thought to himself. He had checked that box for just about every adult in this part of Morgan County.

24 Then, after reading most of the information back to them, he asked if everything was correct. “I guess that sounds right,” Jane told him. “Well, thank you for your time, Mrs. Rutledge,” he told her with a condescending smile, turned and quickly walked back toward the road.

25 “I didn’t much care for him,” William said as they watched him leave. “He don’t know nothin about us,” his mother told him. “But, Mama, he asked all them questions,” he protested.

26 “He knows the answers to his questions, but he don’t know nothin about who we are,” she insisted. “Anyway, I got taters to peal, and you need to water that stock,” she concluded.

27 With that, William turned and walked toward the barn. Even so, he couldn’t shake the feeling that that man had shamed them. “He thinks he is so high and mighty,” William mumbled to himself as he kicked at the red dirt beneath his feet.

28 Now these are the generations of Alfred Franklin Rutledge:

29 Alfred married Jane Harrison and had children: John, Lucinda, Alfred, Mourning, William, Franklin, Martha, Elijah, Eliza and Rilda.

30 Lucinda Rutledge married Jack McAnally and had children: Tea, Albert, Edward, Pearl and Ernest.

31 Albert McAnally married Mattie Vann and had children: Gordon, Nannie, Clarence, Floyd, Raymond, Roy and Charles.

32 Albert’s brother, Edward McAnally, had a son named James.


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