Sunday, April 7, 2024

Chapter 4: 1930-1934, A divorced, single mother

Eunice Reynolds told the clerk that she was twenty-one years old when she applied for her marriage license in Lucas County, Ohio. In reality, she was only fifteen years old at the time. Earl McLaughlin had lied about his age too. The lies, however, had worked; and the young lovers were married before Eunice gave birth to a baby girl she named Madge.

2 Times being what they were, however, there would be no living on their own. Earl didn’t have a job, and they would have to live with Earl’s parents in rural Carroll County, Ohio.

3 “Where did they find this place?” Eunice wondered. And the place wasn’t the only thing that she would have to get used to.

4 Earl’s parents were very clear about who paid the bills and who made the rules in their household. Eunice resented the fact that she was treated like a child and was expected to work like a hired servant. Life quickly degenerated into a mind-numbing routine of abuse with little freedom and virtually no opportunities for relief. It felt like she was in a prison in the middle of nowhere.

5 “Eunice, Mama’s getting tired of your lazy ass! You need to get in that kitchen and wash those damn dishes,” Earl shouted. “You and your Mama can shove those dirty dishes up your asses!” she snapped back. Earl slapped her face.

6 “That’s it!” Eunice cried. She packed her and the baby’s clothes and called her brother to come and get them. She knew that her mother and father would allow her to come home, but she knew that that wouldn’t be any picnic either.

7 Having a child at such a young age had certainly narrowed life’s prospects for her, and her situation did not evoke a great deal of sympathy from the society that surrounded her. No one cared that she had had to assume a great deal of responsibility at such a young age (which was even more difficult for a person who was such a free spirit).

8 Her mother and father, along with a majority of the family, were now living in Lorain County, Ohio. “Mama and Daddy will help me with Madge,” she hoped.

9 Still, she had wanted a change. That’s why she had gotten involved with Earl in the first place. She had grown tired of living under her parent’s rules and depending on them for every dime that came her way.

10 Worse yet, her parents were country folk. Their notions about what constituted a good time did not mesh with her own ideas on that subject.

11 Although Eunice had definitely not wanted to attend yet another “farmer’s picnic” as she called them, the rest of the family had insisted on going to the backwater affair. Even so, her mother had agreed to look after Madge, and she would be free to roam among the picnic tables for a while and peek into the tents that had been set up for the occasion.

12 As she strolled around the grounds, she spotted a group of young people playing cards. “That’s more my style,” she thought as she approached the table. They were laughing and talking when she reached them, and one of the men had just won what was apparently his third hand in a row.

13 “Otto you’re a regular card shark!” she heard the one named Charles exclaim. The Hall sisters giggled and looked adoringly in Otto’s direction while he blushed and looked down at the cards spread out before him. “He’s kinda easy on the eyes,” thought Eunice.

14 “So you’re pretty good at this, huh?” she interrupted. “Care to try your hand against a real card shark?” Eunice demanded.

15 She won the next two hands before Otto recovered his equilibrium. She hadn’t had this much fun in ages and was more than a little delighted that the handsome young man beside her appeared to be bumfuzzled by her ability and presence. She was free of care, concern and responsibility for just a moment, and Eunice was relishing the feeling.

16 Otto had just quietly won another hand when everyone noticed that folks had begun to drift back to their own families. The women folk were clearing away what was left of the food and packing it up for the journey home.

17 “You don’t say a whole lot, do ya?” Eunice prodded. “I guess not,” Otto mumbled as he glanced in her direction. “Well, are you going to ask me out or not?” she demanded. “Well, uh, sure,” he stammered. “I’ll think about it,” she replied after a brief pause. “I’m just kidding!” she quickly reassured him with a smile.

18 “You can pick me up Tuesday evening at six o’clock. And don’t be late!” she added. “Oh, I won’t,” Otto promptly responded. He had a puzzled look on his face as she walked away. “He’s not sure what just hit him,” she thought as she giggled to herself.

19 “Eunice, help me load this food into the car. And then, you take Madge for a while,” her mother ordered. “What will he think about Madge?” Eunice wondered. She grabbed a basket in one hand and her daughter’s small hand in the other and began walking back to the car.

20 Otto Westlake was an enigma. There was something different about him, but he did show up for their date. And Madge didn’t scare him off. And there were more dates over the months that followed.

21 His parents, however, did not approve of the match. “Why do you want to get involved with a divorced woman with a child?” his father demanded. “You could have almost any of the young women around here,” his mother told him; but Caleb knew that wasn’t true.

22 He had been so painfully shy where the opposite sex was concerned that he had only had two real dates before meeting Eunice, and both of those young ladies had given up on him after the first date. “He doesn’t talk,” they complained.

23 Eunice was different. She did enough talking for both of them. She was fun; and, for some unknown reason, she seemed to like him. “This might be my only opportunity for a normal life,” Otto thought.

24 Even so, Eunice was shocked when he finally popped the question. “What will your parents say?” she asked. “They’re not invited,” he said without smiling.

25 “Everybody around here knows that I’m divorced,” she persisted. “I’ve thought about that too,” Otto said. “I’ve done a little checking, and we can get married in New York.” “Well, it sounds like you’ve given this a little thought,” Eunice smiled. “Let’s do it!”

26 They drove to a little town named Ripley, not far from the Pennsylvania border in Chautauqua County, New York and were married there by a young Methodist minister. “They’ll have to accept it now,” Otto said and finally cracked a smile.


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