Thursday, August 31, 2023

Chapter 11: 1635-1657, The New Haven Puritans

William and Philippa Mead left their home in Watford, boarded the ship Elizabeth and arrived at Boston in the spring of 1635. From there, they traveled to Wethersfield in the Connecticut Colony and promptly joined the other saints of the Church of Christ there.

2 William was forty-three years old at the time, and he and Philippa were feeling a little apprehensive about starting over at such an advanced age in such a wild place. Even so, their conviction that they were among God’s people, that He was directing their efforts, and that He had chosen all of them to build His kingdom in this wilderness would sustain them.

3 “The saints have purged the church here of its papal trappings,” William told her. “Kings and bishops have not been able to enforce their pagan practices in this land,” he continued. “God’s people here are united and unwavering in their righteousness and dedication to reform God’s Church and make it Holy again.”

4 The saints at Wethersfield, however, were not united in mind or spirit. The majority of the congregation believed that the Sabbath (Sunday) should be celebrated by the entire community assembled at Church from early in the morning to late in the afternoon. Nevertheless, there was not an insignificant number of saints who thought that the formal worship service should conclude around noon, and that the remainder of the day should be spent in quiet contemplation and prayer at home.

5 Like most of the Puritan churches of New England, the Wethersfield congregation met in a very plain building. The interior walls were white and free of any decorations. The pews were bare wood and very uncomfortable. The pulpit was the focus of the entire room, and everyone’s attention was expected to be focused there during the worship service. Moreover, if anyone failed to focus on the sermons and prayers, the deacons (or the minister) were not afraid to point out their failure after service.

6 Hence, it did not take long until the two sides in the controversy over the length of the formal Sabbath observance came to a head. In fact, the situation had reached such serious proportions that the Reverend John Davenport of New Haven visited the congregation and attempted to mediate the dispute.

7 “We cannot comprehend why anyone would be opposed to worshipping the Lord for the whole of the Sabbath!” William declared. “No one has suggested any other use for the Sabbath,” another man rebutted. “Some of us, however, feel that a portion of the day should be reserved for the solitude of prayer and reading within our own homes!”

8 Seeing that neither side was likely to give an inch on the matter, Reverend Davenport suggested that the congregation come to an amicable parting of the ways. “It is my judgment that it would be in the best interest of everyone for you to divide into two congregations, so that you do not hinder one another’s worship or erect a stumbling block for your brother,” he concluded.

9 In the meeting that followed, it was determined that the advocates of the lengthy Sabbath service would leave Wethersfield and found a new community and church elsewhere in the colony. “Our Captain Turner has just purchased a large tract of land from the savages,” Reverend Davenport suggested. “I am sure New Haven would be open to discussing terms for these lands with your representatives.” The hardliners jumped at the offer.

10 The transaction was completed by the fall of 1640, and the saints immediately set about the task of laying out the new town of Stamford. William and Philippa received a lot of five acres the following year and began the task of staring over yet again.

11 “We are old and weary,” Philippa told her husband. “I hope that this will be the last time we are uprooted and have to begin again.” “A-men to that!” William agreed.

12 Although the work was hard, with the help of their friends and neighbors, the Meads soon had a simple frame house on their land and were raising potatoes and other vegetables in a large garden beside it. Before long, they had even acquired another cow and added more chickens to the stock which they had brought with them from Wethersfield. Thus, although they were not as prosperous as some of their neighbors, they managed to sustain themselves and their small family.

13 Their daughter Martha was a kind, quiet and hard-working girl, and William and Philippa loved her very much. Unfortunately, however, Martha was troubled with a strange malady that no one really understood. She had what they called “fits” and suffered peculiar changes in behavior whenever one of them came over her.

14 “The poor girl is possessed by a deaf and dumb spirit,” the neighbors whispered to each other. “Satan has the poor child in his grasp!”

15 Martha didn’t understand her affliction any better than their neighbors, but she didn’t think that it had anything to do with the devil. A strange feeling would come over her at times, and she knew that she was about to have one of the fits. Her vision would get blurry, and she was able to hear and smell things that she would normally be unable to detect. She would often get lightheaded, and there would be a fluttering sensation in her stomach. And then it would happen. Martha would suffer a blackout – a complete loss of consciousness, without any memory of what had happened during that period when she awoke.

16 Even so, Martha managed to hold down a job as a domestic servant in one of their wealthier neighbor’s home. She cooked and cleaned for them and managed to find enough time on the side to permit the attentions of a young man named John Richardson.

17 To be sure, it was a very proper Puritan courtship - there was no touching or alone time. Nevertheless, in spite of all of the strictures on their activities, the two managed to fall in love and resolved to talk to Martha’s parents as soon as possible about marriage. However, they were soon to learn that the road to that event would not be a straight one.

18 Early in the year 1653, Martha was busy at work when she felt the approach of one of her fits. She had just folded some linens when she began to swoon. She could see someone running toward her, and then there was nothing.

19 She came to in a bed and noticed Joseph Garnet standing in the corner of the room. “Are you feeling better?” he asked. “I – I’m not sure,” she replied.

20 There was a wet, sticky feeling between her legs, and a soreness there which she had never experienced before that day. She felt queasy and weak, but she also felt the need to get up out of that bed and go home. As she swung her feet over onto the floor, Joseph rushed over to the bed, grabbed her arm and helped to steady her as she stood up.

21 Just then, the lady of the house entered the room. “Joseph, you should not be in here with Martha,” she scolded. “I will help her,” she said as she took Martha’s other arm. “Mr. Ross and I were only trying to help,” he sheepishly offered in his defense and then retreated.

22 About a month later, John finally summoned enough courage to talk to William about his daughter. “I would very much like to have your blessing to marry Martha,” he blurted out before he had even taken a seat before the fireplace.

23 “I see,” William began. “I cannot say that this comes as a surprise to us,” he continued. John began to squirm as he took his seat. “We would be honored to have you as our son,” William smiled.

24 “Thank you, sir!” John almost shouted. William laughed, and the young man finally relaxed into his chair.

25 As the wedding day approached, however, Martha had been having morning sickness and she had already missed two periods. “You are with child,” her mother told her.

26 “That cannot be!” Martha replied in astonishment. “Have you and John been together?” Philippa demanded. “Never!” Martha cried with as much indignation as she could muster and began weeping.

27 When she regained her composure, she told her mother about what had happened that day at work. “I don’t remember anything, but something must have happened,” Martha insisted.

28 “Dearest child, we will talk to your father and John and see what they have to say,” Philippa told her. “Must we?” her daughter pleaded. “This is not something that we will be able to hide from them, and they must know what happened,” Philippa insisted.

29 Fortunately, after hearing the story, both men offered their support to Martha. John and Martha were quietly married and then moved to Roxbury in the Massachusetts Bay Colony to prevent the gossip that would most assuredly ensue in Stamford.

30 While living there, the baby was born and had died within a month. Martha was inconsolable. John took her in his arms and comforted her. “It’s time to go home,” he told her.

31 However, within a few months of returning, a nasty rumor about what had happened had spread across Stamford. “I have heard that Martha Richardson was with child when she married John, and that they moved away to keep their secret and get rid of the baby,” Goodwife Buxton whispered to her neighbor, Sarah Scofield. “I hope that is not true,” Goodwife Scofield replied. “The Meads are fine people and good friends of ours.”

32 Unfortunately, the rumor was close enough to the truth and couldn’t be answered or explained without creating an awkward moment for everyone concerned and revealing other embarrassing information. Thus, by September of 1654, news had reached the colonial capital at New Haven, and a date was set for the Court of Magistrates to look into the matter.

33 Governor Theophilus Eaton and Deputy Governor Stephen Goodyear presided over the court. There were four other magistrates on the dais that day.

34 “Martha Mead, now the wife of John Richardson of Stamford, you are charged with fornication and being with child at the time of your marriage,” Governor Eaton began. “We are also here today to inquire about the manner of that child’s death after living about a month,” he continued. “That we might know the truth of the matter, the court calls John Richardson to testify.”

35 After he was sworn to tell the truth, one of the other magistrates began questioning him. “When did you marry this woman, and when was the child born?” he demanded.

36 “We married in July of last year, and the baby was born in January,” John answered. This was followed by several questions and answers in quick succession.

37 “When did the child die?” “A little over a month later.”

38 “Did you father the child?” “No.”

39 “You were, however, aware that she was with child?” “Yes.”

40 “And you deliberately misled everyone about these facts?” “I wanted to spare her the shame.” John was visibly shaken when he returned to his seat.

41 “The court calls Martha Richardson to testify,” another magistrate announced. “Were you with child before you were married to John Richardson?” he asked. “Yes, but I did not commit fornication.”

42 “Then how do you explain the fact that you were with child?” he demanded. “I had swooned while I was working at my master’s house in Stamford, and someone took advantage of me while I was insensible.”

43 “Are you asking us to believe that you have no memory of your wicked behavior?” he pressed. “I can only tell you that I did not willingly fornicate with any man,” she insisted.

44 “What became of the child?” “My poor little girl went to sleep one night and never awoke,” Martha sobbed. When she had finished her testimony, the magistrates heard from several members of the community who testified about Martha’s “fits.”

45 After discussing the matter amongst themselves, the magistrates prepared to announce their decision. “The court finds Martha Richardson guilty of fornication and lying without ceasing, and she deserves a public whipping,” Governor Eaton pronounced. “However, in consideration of the fact that she is now great with child, the court orders a fine of ten pounds for her wicked behavior - to be paid within the year,” he finished.

46 The court eventually accepted two cows from her husband and brother as payment for the fine. Martha’s brother, however, had problems of his own.

47 John Mead had a temper, and he did not like Quakers. “We should live at peace with all men and listen to the voice of Christ within us,” the young Quaker had admonished him after John had threatened to toss him into the river.

48 “You child of the Devil!” John bellowed. He then took a run at the astonished Quaker and shoved him into the Mianus River.

49 “You are not permitted to take the law into your own hands and throw someone into the River!” Constable Richard Law reprimanded him. “Are you in league with Satan?” John demanded. “You must be one of them! Have you adopted this heresy?” he persisted. “John, I am arresting you for bearing false witness and making slanderous accusations against one of God’s own servants,” Law replied.

50 The court agreed with the constable. “We cannot recall having met with such a case since this court was convened,” the presiding officer began. “It is evident to us that you are full of malice and bitterness, John Mead, and are deserving of severe censure and punishment by this court.”

51 When the proceedings had concluded, and John had made arrangements to pay his fines, his father took him aside and admonished him to be more circumspect in the future. “A good reputation is a precious thing, and it is hard to repair that when it has been damaged,” William told him.

Chapter 10: 1635-1655, From Cambridge to Ipswich and Long Island

Edward Ketcham had married Mary Hall at the Church of Saint Andrew the Great (in the County of Cambridge, in the realm of England) on August 22, 1619. Over the years that followed, his children (Mary, John, Hester and Anna) were all christened in that same church. To be sure, there was a familiarity and sense of continuity about life there that had the effect of lulling one into a comfortable rut.

2 Even so, like many of his countrymen, Edward had heard about the possibility of a new life in England’s colonies in America. “There is nothing for us here,” he told Mary. “But our home is here, and there is so much danger and uncertainty in that place,” she protested.

3 Edward’s restlessness, however, won out in the end. The young family settled at Ipswich in the Massachusetts Bay Colony in 1635. The settlement was less than two years old when they arrived, and there was enough hard work and sacrifice to keep everyone preoccupied for years. There was, however, too much of both for Mary. She was dead within two years.

4 “I cannot stay in this place,” Edward confided to a friend. “Mary and I were going to build a new life for ourselves and our children here,” he continued. “It is no good without her.” “The whole land is before you - your children need a mother and you need a wife,” his friend pointed out.

5 Edward took his friend’s advice. He collected his children and what few belongings he had and moved to Long Island. He had also remarried within the year.

6 Now these are the generations of Edward Ketcham:

7 Edward was the father of John, Sarah, Rebecca and others.

8 John Ketcham married Bethia Richardson, the daughter of John Richardson and Martha Mead. They were the ancestors of Edward Ketcham.

9 Sarah Ketcham married Joseph Whitman, and they were the ancestors of Walt Whitman and Warren Buffett.

10 Rebecca Ketcham married Thomas Taylor, and they were the ancestors of William Tecumseh Sherman.

11 Edward Ketcham begat Peter, Elizabeth and other children.

12 Peter Ketcham was the forefather of Green Berry, Samuel and Thomas.

13 Elizabeth Ketcham married Edmond McAnally, and they had twelve children together.


Sunday, August 20, 2023

Chapter 9: 1632-1660, Puritans and Quakers

John Howland’s brothers, Henry and Arthur, arrived at Plymouth in 1632. “Did you really think that we would let you keep this paradise all to yourself?” Henry shouted as they stepped off the ship which had carried them across the Atlantic. John smiled and embraced his brothers. Then he helped them with their baggage and directed them toward his house.

2 The house was sided with clapboards to protect its inhabitants against the elements and was covered with a thatch roof that had been woven together from grasses and reeds harvested from the local marshes. Like the other houses of the time, it was a frame house with the timbers still visible among the clay plaster of the interior. Although it was small, the interior appeared to be very clean and well-furnished.

3 As they entered the house, they noticed a large stone fireplace at one end of the room. A thin but sturdy looking woman was standing beside it with a baby in her arms.

4 “This is my wife, Elizabeth,” John began. “It is so good to finally meet you, sister,” Arthur offered as he moved to embrace her. “Yes, we have heard so much about you,” Henry agreed as he patted the baby on her head.

5 “Welcome to our home, brothers,” Elizabeth smiled. “We hope that you will be comfortable here until you are able to establish a place of your own.” “Thank you,” they returned together. Then everyone chuckled nervously, unloaded their burdens and began the task of adjusting to each other and their new living arrangements.

6 Within a few years, Henry was well established at Duxbury. In 1635, he was made a constable for Duxbury. He lived along the bay and was soon considered to be one of the leading citizens in his community. The following year, he was appointed to serve on a committee with Edward Winslow and Philip Delaney to determine how the hay grounds would be used by the settlers.

7 In 1640, he purchased five acres of upland and one acre of marshland for twelve bushels of Indian corn. He also served as Surveyor of Highways and on the Grand Inquest.

8 It wasn’t long, however, until Henry started having problems with the colony’s Puritan rulers. The difficulties began as a consequence of his flirtation with the Quaker religion. Over the years, Henry became convinced that the group’s teachings were the purest expression of ancient Christianity.

9 Like them, he came to believe that no human intermediaries were necessary in his relationship with God. “The Spirit of Christ within each individual will direct that person into a right relationship with the Almighty,” he declared. As a consequence, he began inviting members of the society into his home and allowing them to witness there.

10 Then, in June of 1657, he informed colonial officials that: “I will not make any oaths, and I will not serve on a grand jury.” Shortly thereafter, he was required to pay five pounds and/or receive a whipping for “entertaining” Quakers. In October of that same year, he was called to appear before the court to answer another charge of entertaining Quakers in his home.

11 Two years later, Henry and his brother-in-law were summoned once again to appear before the court. “You are charged with abetting and entertaining Quakers,” the magistrate informed them.

12 “We must follow the dictates of our own conscience in this regard,” he protested. “Your freedom is hereby voided, and you are forever disenfranchised from fully participating in this community,” the court ruled.

13 The following year, Henry was fined twice for permitting a Quaker meeting in his home. He refused to pay the fines and his house and lands were confiscated by the marshal.

14 In the meantime, Arthur had established himself at Marshfield. In 1647, William Partridge sold 300 acres of land to Arthur, and he appeared to be on his way to becoming one of the outstanding citizens of that area.

15 Arthur, however, proved to be just as susceptible to the Quaker’s doctrines as his brother had been. As a consequence, fate and his new faith intervened.

16 In December of 1657, Constable John Phillips was dispatched to his house to break up a meeting of the Quakers. “Phillips has been informed of this meeting, and he is on his way this very minute to put an end to it,” one of his neighbors informed him. A few minutes later, the constable knocked on his door, but there was no answer – the house was empty.

17 The following day, the constable was knocking on Arthur’s door again. “I have an arrest warrant for you and Robert Huchin,” Phillips announced. “You will not take me or Robert Huchin from these grounds,” Arthur assured him.

18 At that, the constable returned to the village for reinforcements. However, when he returned, Robert Huchin was gone; but he proceeded to arrest Arthur anyway.

19 Arthur refused to post bond when he was imprisoned. Instead, he composed a letter to the General Court at Plymouth. In it, he said: “I must protest the deplorable circumstances that have resulted in my present condition. Indeed, it is a shame when a man finds himself deprived of his freedom for his conscience sake. As others before me have noted, it is dangerous to force a man to go against his own conscience.”

20 For resisting arrest, he was fined five pounds. For permitting a Quaker meeting in his home, he was fined four pounds.

21 Arthur, however, refused to pay the fines and was again imprisoned. In June, he appeared before the court and asked them to dismiss the charges against him (which they did). That same year, he and his wife were also fined ten shillings for being absent from public worship (that is, the Puritan church).

22 Even so, the financial penalties were as nothing compared to the separation that their faith had wrought in their own family. John continued to adhere to the established church and began to avoid associating with his brothers. Arthur and Henry were heartbroken.